For the most part I agree with Kaatjex and Flammenmeer. I hardly think that Kaatjex's friend - on sight alone - was asked to attend the after party for any reason other than to provide "eye candy" and possibly a whole lot
more. Regarding those who (mistakenly) label the
boys as "victims" and the young women who pursue them as "sluts" I too disagree.
I think this is patently and totally ludicrous to see the
boys as "victims" - something akin to a pure, innocent choirboy being pursued by the skanky slut of the school. Come on now - open your eyes! Don't forget it always takes two to tango. Most men learn early on how to use sweet talk, outright lies and moves in order to get laid as fast and as often as possible. There are after show parties (with both male and female fans) and the after
after show parties that I would imagine, are rather similar to Berlusconi's "Bunga Bunga Parties". The girls who are invited to these after
after parties are simply a new "crop" pretty faces from which the
boys attending have to pick their T&A for the night.
...............................................She's my little rock 'n' roll
...............................................My tits and ass with soul baby
That being said, everyone has many different facets/components to themselves. We might see someone in one "light" - for example, meeting a
boy at a store, coffee shop or hair stylist's. (We did have someone post a pic of herself (or her friend) who'd met Till at her hairdresser's salon). The person one would meet there would most likely be somewhat or very different at an after (or after
after) party, at his mom's home, with his friends playing cards, or whatever. In other words, there is no reason that any of the
boys who partake in the hard partying and available T&A cannot also
be good friends, sons, fathers who also have full lives - and outside interests - apart from being in the band. (Notice I'm not saying a good husband or boyfriend? That's because I don't think a "good" one would screw around, but that's just me).
* "Little T&A" by the Rolling Stones http://www.musicsonglyrics.com/T/therol ... lyrics.htm